“There is nothing that can replace the absence of someone dear to us, and one should not even attempt to do so. One must simply hold out and endure it. At first that sounds very hard, but at the same time it is also a great comfort. For to the extent the emptiness truly remains unfilled one remains connected to the other person through it. It is wrong to say that God fills the emptiness. God in no way fills it but much more leaves it precisely unfilled and thus helps us preserve -- even in pain -- the authentic relationship. Further more, the more beautiful and full the remembrances, the more difficult the separation. But gratitude transforms the torment of memory into silent joy. One bears what was lovely in the past not as a thorn but as a precious gift deep within, a hidden treasure of which one can always be certain."― Dietrich Bonhoeffer
I'm sure those of you who knew her well can understand how even a decade later, her death leaves an emptiness that can't be replaced. It has been an endurance on many occasions without her counsel, but ultimately I'm grateful because I had the privilege of calling her mom. If you knew her, close your eyes and listen to her laugh and let that be your hidden treasure today.